OneArt

Thank you so much

That is an amazing story

So here is where I am

W became the opposite of who she was

And now some things are turning back to the woman I knew

But other things I think are permanently changed

Extreme weight loss and exercise period is over

And she is back to a healthy weight

Her extreme spending is over

But she still does not trust me with money

Her party days are over

And she is not chasing OMs

She left the church

And is sticking with her non Christian beliefs

She emotionally left her kids

And has reconnected with them

She left her old friends

And they do not want to be her friends any more

And then there is she and I

Like In the story

I think she is no longer doing a lot of harm

But we are on different sides of this canyon

And I do not know how we bridge it


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving