It may seem odd and like you're playing games at first. You are not. Old habits die hard. This will help you as well as give him a refresher on the kind of things you contributed to the MR.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.