One other thing, like earlier posts saying to not get other women involved when I GAL, I also read that we don’t want to use jealousy to get the wife back... don’t recall if that was from DR or another book, or article. W has been asking me more frequently now if there is someone else or if I have someone on the side. This temp checking right? I thought what DR said was that we let them know we want to work it out and that there isn’t anyone else but that’s it, don’t offer much more than that. I’m guessing this was for a WAW and not WW, who needs to be handled differently, yes? Do we even need to reassure them for their sake? I’m thinking what for.... it’s probably a temp check or their guilty conscience so why bother satisfying her either way? Am I missing something?
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
