Djv, I know how the thought of D can be frightening. Have you talked to a lawyer. That might be helpful to get to know some facts, it is alsoagood practice to talk about it very matter of factly. I went a few weeks ago to a free consultation, because it was stressing me a lot, that my husband would all of a sudden present the papers. It felt very weird going there, sitting there and talking about D like it would actually happen, but I felt better afterward. I also wrote down some points that would be important to me, if it came to D so I have some facts prepared to take the emotions out of that conversation, if it comes to that.
I am glad you arranged for your free weekends. I hope you will enjoy them.I will have my first free Thursday this week. I thought I would be looking forward to it. Now I am not so sure anymore.