Just FYI, your goal is to get to the point where he no longer can get under your skin.
I know I still have a ways to go in this area. I'm early in this process and still slip. I imagine it will get easier as time goes on. I hope so!
Originally Posted by RR17
Forward the emails and let him know that it is no longer your duty. Not in a nasty way, just a "matter of fact" kind of way.
This is what I had hoped to accomplish by saying "I think you need to take care of this". But, just now I can see how it was me telling him what to do. I can see how" it's no longer my duty" would be better as this is controlling my behavior, not his. Learning new things every day!