I think he is TF...in his own way. He really likes the 14 year-old boy. The girl he isn’t crazy about but he says she is hardly ever there. I’m just really stunned by his lack of insight into how that looks to our children. He, of course, likely thinks I’m making something out of nothing. Anyway...he is coming over in about an hour to talk about it. I am keeping the conversation to children only and not stray into the R side of things. I want to get through the holidays before we have that talk.