Originally Posted by Grace21
And if she says "No". Then what? Seems it gives all the control to her.


I don’t know....nothing I guess but I won’t feel the need to be friendly to her anymore. I’ll be civil, especially in front of the kids, but I won’t be engaging in conversations with her.

What do you suggest I do? She lied to me and our ICs about this whole NC talk she had with OM 2 weeks ago. She has since broken it and I want her to know she isn’t fooling me and I’m not interested in waiting around when she’s in contact still with OM.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19