[Wanted1]

I’ve had a long time to calm down. I found this contact with OM late this morning.

My “showing herl is by finally telling her that I want her to move out. If she’s not willing to take time and space away from OM to focus on our M and R and what she wants, then why should I allow her to be in this in house separation and get all of the benefits of being married? This limbo period was for her to figure out what she wants. That isn’t going to happen with the constant communication with OM. It’s disrespectful as hell to continue stringing me along like this.

She hasn’t felt any loss or consequence from her actions. If she’s living away from our house and seeing the kids as frequently as she would if/when we divorce, she might finally understand the reality of this situation.

I honestly am at a point where if she leaves and doesn’t come back, I’m going to be OK. She’s chit on me enough and I’m growing tired of that and the utter lack of respect she has for me and our M.