I am a little confused. You both are in the house basically doing an in-house separation that almost sounds like an in-house divorce. Do you have a scheduled child plan?
It stated as a trial in-house S that morphed three months later to a in-house S (while W is in an EA/PA with OM), and it was a 3-day W stay, 3-day I stay at the house S. This has been going on for over 10 months now with no end in sight.
W is starting talks of moving out, but she is very hesitant.
I just know that I am past the point of discomfort in her presence. I am past the point of mourning. She feels like she needs to breathe and mourn. She wants to leave, she can go.