Do I give her the chance to send a message to OM in front of me telling him NC and then watch her block, delete, etc him from her phone or should I just go with what I said before and show her the door?

M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19