The part that hurts me in DBing techniques are what she pointed out in the convo we had. She thinks by me not always initiating convo with her then it means I’m cold, shut down, mad, etc., which is apparently what I’ve done in the past. That could be her trying to find reasons to justify her position which would fit into her theme recently. But at this point, my goal is to get her to move out barring a miraculous jolt from her current wayward thinking, which I doubt will happen.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19