MrSunny - I was in your situation just a few months ago. Thinking if i made a mistake or if i did wrong. My emotions were all over the place. It is one of the hardest pains that anyone can go through.
You will go through many pondering issues such as -
1) A Shock - Is she really doing this to me? 2) Will I ever be accepted by someone again? 3) How do I walk with my head held high and confident? 4) How will i address these issues with friends and collegues? - Do I hide it or disclose it? 5) Will i die broke alone? 6) Will she ever think of me again? 7) Will she marry off soon to start off a new life. 8) Improper sleep, waking up at 4-5 AM in the mornings, sleeping alone in bed. Wierd dreams - Will this ever end?
The fact that you may have all the above thoughts is absolutely normal. I went through this difficult situation for a long time. Moreover you are still married. The pain is most until you are done with divorce. Like many experts who provided you suggestions, I sometimes argued or disagreed with some points. But overall, If I were you, I would continue to to be happy and content with myself, and move on with my life as if nothing happened. It is hard, it is difficult, but not impossible. Start your day as if you divorced your wife and you are single. And move on. Just have minimal interaction with your wife and do not engage in any / (As less as possible) relationship talks. MOVE ON. Take 1 hr at a time, then take 1 day at a time. Eventually you will come to the position to where many of us are standing strong. Good luck!
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
