Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage

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ST...a lot of advice coming at you. Take the time to stop and absorb it and slow down! You mind is all over the place, don't do anything drastic. Like everyone said whether she travels or not she is still communicating and lying about 100% of what is going on. After 6 months I find the lying and arrogance just as painful as the A. But you have to become numb to it, it will take time and only through changing what you do with your life.

Follow the rules when you are around WW and more important GAL! It is hard as anything and it will not feel real but just leave the house whenever you can to get away from her. I started out just driving or window shopping, getting out and having interactions with other people. It will take time!

We all panic and don't know what to do at first. How can I ever go on with my life without this person? We were all pathetic in the beginning chasing WWs around, I did the PI thing filed for divorce then withdrew the petition. Wasted money! I have been DB'ing for three months now in hopes of R but am at a point where I can feel true detachment. I thought I was detaching before but jumped on every test WW gave me. GAL has helped tremendously, I can honestly say that if the A stopped and WW came back 100% that I am not sure what I would do.

I like having my independence now too!