Sorry you are here So Torn. Read what Cadet posted. It´s really important. You need to stick to DB.

Bundaries are for YOU, you control yourself. W is WW. Stay away from her. Garlic, crucifix and not going out at night for you...

Be there for your children. Detach from W, read what R2C posted above.

Be strong man, have patience, this is going to take a long time. No expectations, right?

WW H(me): 55
W: 50
S: 20
T: 31 M: 25

Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm