Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage

[Ready2Change]

Should I completely ignore her?

No.

Or is it ok to be cordial

Yes. Treat her like a hostess at a restaurant.

and send texts for good morning and goodnight?

No this is pursuit. She has disrespected you.

third is that she gets a good jolt on the consequences

This is what you want to happen. All at once. The quicker the better. Collect all you options. Think. Make a decision. take action.

I may call another attorney just to see what I have to do. One good thing is that I get unlimited attorney hours as a benefit from my work. Up to $300/hr. So I have legal protection.

Get a list of quiestions and protect yourself legally. Understand your legal rights.

I did buy the DR book as well. She was digging through my room looking for leverage and saw it.

No biggy. We recommend keeping it to yourself.

I am going to IC Wednesday.

Good decision.

I may need to see the doctor as well. I am having really bad nightmares and insomnia.

Yes. Meds help during this. Keeps you level headed. I had a pill that let me sleep 8 hours straight. OMG that was the best.

At least I'm in the MBR.

Perfect.