...Long time lurker, finally signed up. Desperately trying to save my marriage and family....
Welcome. Sorry you find yourself in this sitch.
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The biggest issue I need help with right now is that my wife is still in contact with OM. She hides in the bathroom. I told her that her remaining in contact in this home is disrespectful.
What is the rest of your boundary? What action will you take if she continues?