Originally Posted by SoTorn
...Long time lurker, finally signed up. Desperately trying to save my marriage and family....

Welcome. Sorry you find yourself in this sitch.

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The biggest issue I need help with right now is that my wife is still in contact with OM. She hides in the bathroom. I told her that her remaining in contact in this home is disrespectful.
What is the rest of your boundary? What action will you take if she continues?


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Should I move out and take the kids now?
No. Stay in the house.



I am not sure how much of my quote threads you have read, but I world start here and dig deep into them:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2045336#Post2045336


I wish you well.




"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712