The only thing you should believe are his behaviors. Not his words.
The best way to communicate with him is through your behavior. Use your words sparingly. Boundaries and validation. Always speak the truth. Make sure you understand body language and that you are communicating the right messages to him.
It is best to think of him as a new man who you have your eye on. Lets imagine you are single and this is a new single guy that just moved into the apartment across the hall. How would you treat him?
Thank you so much for the encouragement. If he was a guy in the apartment across the hall and we talked and he said all the confusing things he痴 said to me, I wouldn稚 be interested in him at all. I would see someone that was not my type or someone I wouldn稚 be interested in because he痴 a complete mess.
I just can稚 believe this is my life at freaking 42. I can稚 understand why this is happening to me. It痴 so frustrating.
What pisses me off the most is Mr. I知 bored with my routine and want to start doing the things in life I want to do, hasn稚 done anything. He had the entire weekend to go do some of the things he痴 stated he wants to do, but guess what Mr. I Hate Routines did? He did the same thing he always does...he sat around with his boring self and was sleep by 9 pm on a Saturday evening. For someone who is tired of his routine he hasn稚 changed crap. So I guess he値l magically come alive once he moves out. I swear I want to smack the crap out of him. No worries, I won稚. I知 just venting.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
