My advice is to leave her alone until the date you agreed to meet.
I encourage you to continue reading relationship type books. You need to learn how more about how women think/feel. And, if I may point out a couple of things, I think it will help you in future relationships.
Stop with the jokes and teasing, b/c they are not funny. They are painful to women. Never, EVER tease/joke about any part of her body. Even if she has a good sense of humor, don't tease and joke about her body, her family, etc. So many men have killed a good W's love by this type of carelessness...….and they call it "teasing and/or joking".
The same applies to children. Whether it is your child or your step-child, he looks to you for support, security, and protection. Build him up. Don't tear him down.
You are able to change for the better, by learning the skills to have a good relationship in the future.
Sandi after speaking with db coach on Friday, I decided to text WAW today.
Not the interaction I was hoping for but if anyone would like to let me know if I handled it well, I would appreciate it.
Me: Hey W, how have you and S been?
WAW: Hey, we are good. Thanks for asking and yourself?
ME: I’m been doing fine. I would like to see him soon if that’s cool. It’s been too long.
WAW: Yea i dunno I’ll have to see.....
(I understand this is a nice way of saying no) so I replied
ME: Yeah. Maybe the day we go to the city he can come with us. That be cool.
WAW: He has school?
ME: I know it’s a Monday but I just thought maybe he could come.
WAW: I’m not taking him out of school for that
ME: Makes total sense. But dude you guys take care. Im here for anything and I’m Looking forward to seeing you guys one of these days
End of conversation since she hasn't replied in a couple of hours and I'll just text her probably in a couple weeks to set up the details of plans.
