The reality is that I will very likely lose the kids (at the next court date because W is telling lies) and so then the home (in a divorce but neither W or I have started that yet).

Today at the kids handover the kids said W is buying a new car, W replied that perhaps a good friend was buying it for her. I didn't respond. Kids later said in-laws are paying towards it. It seems W gives them cash and the in-laws buy stuff for W. It means keeping it all hidden from a future D agreement. When W said perhaps good friend was buying it for her, she said it in a bitchy way to try to make me jealous. I wasn't. I didn't respond and I carried on as if water off a ducks back.

When I saw the W and In-laws a few days ago they didn't look happy at all. It looked very awkward like they have fallen-out. Kids say the in-laws have now left the house so W will be on her own for next few nights or more whilst I have the kids. It's a rare occurrence for W to be on her own since separation without her parents. If there is an OP then I guess this is her chance to be with them or she's going to have time to think. Regardless, I'm very busy for the next week with kids and legal stuff.