Sometimes I get really mad, that we let them destroy our holidays. I do did dread the holidays, but try to turn my thinking around. They have no right to take our holiday spirit away, and we can not allow them to do so.The holiday season has so many good things about it, only few of them are actually related to our spouses, so I am trying to look forward to It a little bit....but that does not always work, I am also still in the process of figuring out how much time I want to give to him over Thabksgiving and Christmas.
