[quote=DejaVu6] I think it would be really, really easy to try to fill up the hole this crisis has caused with the kind of excitement that comes with dating and meeting new people
I think this is exactly what my H is possibly doing. No specific evidence yet, though. A wise friend, whose ex went from one woman to another, said that Hs like ours find others immediately because they can't stand to be with themselves. That really was a profound revelation for me. I believe my H is so discussed with himself that he needs constant external validation. This resulted in infidelity, porn addiction and more. The more I am finding happiness in doing the things I enjoy for MYSELF and just the very small pleasures of life (like seeing a mommy duck followed by 10 babies on my walk a few days ago), the more it makes me sad H probably has no inner happiness. I pray he is able to some day.
