Well don’t buy that BS! You know, believe nothing...really a very rare psych. advice...c’mon...
Reinforce DB man, it’s going to rain waywardness there, get the umbrella and go GAL. Hey, you don’t validate everything she says. Just her feelings and to a certain extent. She’s making her psych responsible for her demands...
Set boundaries to protect yourself and the kids, detach and GAL. DB at the max!