Your XW probably cant make the first move out of fear, so she puts the work in their court 2 teens?
On the positive side, At least she made herself available for them to someday reach out- I guess that is better than nothing It shows she cares, shes just incapable of mending the damage as of now This is probably not over- just for now-
when they become adults, they may want to contact her
Im sorry that it didn't turn out better
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