If she is really in MLC, you will continue to see crazy behavior and a lot of come closer, and push aways
mood swings and odd behavior

I don't think the MLCer gives up for long, because the issues run deep-
The crises usually takes a long time
some do return quickly but we rarely see that on this board-

if it is something besides MLC you may see someone shift back into the relationship
and perhaps work on things in a shorter time frame


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bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
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