Whirlwind of Hurt 4

[Twofeet]

Ez,

I know I am not a passive/beta type. I feel like I am an alpha/dominant person. I do have flaws and I slip up like everyone. I am just trying to understand how could this of lead to D? I would think in most cases these flaws are minor and shouldn't lead to D. Problems that need to be worked on, but not serious enough to cause D. Am I too strong to the point of it being problematic? The other side of the coin is that W own issues were too much for her and would have lead to this anyway. LH19 makes the point that given the circumstances, I probably beat the odds getting the R to last as long as it did, but it would have been a miracle to go the distance. Maybe who I am kept it going this long, and a weaker dude would have caused her to leave a long time ago. I didn't put up with her sh!t, but if you are on a ship with too many holes you can't keep up with everything. Things slip through the cracks and eventually it sinks.
I don't know, I am still sitting here scratching my head. I am not perfect, but how much a part did I play? I want to know what I did wrong specifically so I can not do it again. Truthfully, the good thing is I am walking away from this with the knowledge of some needed self-improvements to work on.