Journaling

Not a whole lot of change on my sitch. W continues to sniff around the edges and reaching out on stuff that is not essential or she already knows. Another week and radio silence from her attorney. I continue DB’ing my A$$ off.

One interesting thing I learned was W’s long time BF that lives in Europe filed for D around same time my W filed. Not that one has to do with the other...just crazy how D seems to be the latest “trend” in a lot of W social circle. Oh well...can’t control or concern myself about it.

Have S this weekend and last night he had another breakdown asking why we all couldn’t live together. This was prompted by him finding the last professional photo we took as a family roughly a year ago that I recently took out of its frame and had placed inside a side table in MBR. I plan to make an effort this week to gather remaining family pics and box them up so they will be out of site.

Plan GAL activities around son after gym. Plan to do Santa visit today....earliest I’ve ever done to try and get a leg up on Xmas shopping planning. Also to try and establish new memories for S and I. Play date also planned for late afternoon at a trampoline park so kids can get energy burned. (Our first snowfall came and it’s freezing!). Then movie/pizza night..watching latest marvel film.

Tomorrow GAL include church and brunch with friends/gym/then doing complex Lego build project with S.


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis