RDS, thanks for stopping by and updating the board, many don't once it's finally done, or maybe once they have reconciled they stop posting (not as likely). I remember your sitch, your subject line as I recall was because things got pretty bad during the court stuff, she ended up using stuff you had said or done while trying to reconcile against you in mediation or in an affidavit perhaps, a betrayal of sorts (even though you were separated)...and then things got better but she never fully came around or opened up...until now. So weird. Did she say what prompted her to finally talk to you about how she was feeling? Also, did you ask why she didn't say anything sooner when it might have made a difference? Had she met anyone after the D? Finally, did you ever do any pursuing after the D but before meeting your new lady?
