The other thing is to view this situation as a Valuable time /lesson in your life Maybe not exactly what you wanted...but it needed to happen for whatever reason
It can become an extremely important time:
you get to re-discover yourself you get to see the M.. the mistakes , the changes you would want in yourself if you had another chance
You get to look at your relationship with your kids, what you would change, whats important your friendships and family
maybe there are some issues in yourself, that can be healed also-or changed The way we take care of ourselves our compassion expands ect… our religious or spiritual views much to learn here
Without the crises, we may not look within we may not be aware of things even in other people that we need to see
It doesn't seem as such, but maybe a gift in some ways-
Usually the LBS gets to the other side with many new gifts, maybe a new view on life and definitely happy again
Depending the the MLCer and if it is true MLC, some do not make the other side better than b4
more will be revealed later.. now is time for patience and inner healing and work
hang in there
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