13 years and two small children

[DonH]

DB is a tool to improve yourself. If doesn´t matter if you want to stay into MR or not. It helps YOU.

Where in MWD writing does it say DB is a tool to Improve yourself rather than to save a M? To be certain many here have tried to turn it into that. Many have improved themselves, myself included. But I have to say I cringe when I see comments like this. The purpose of the book and methods is to bust a D. Sadly that doesn't often happen so the consolation prize is a better you. But I just don't think we should change MWD goals for her - nor let off the hook for techniques that dont always work. Just my thoughts on that. We dint get to put words in her mouth.

Hurt I am pretty sure it has been suggested to you before that you not rush to respond without getting input here first, yet you seem to want to do that. Why the rush? Did you really need to send all of that? His does it get you closer to your goal? What is your ultimate goal? We all know this is all so hard but you've got to slow down a bit. You've done well with many things but then set yourself back with others. SLOW DOWN. Post here first. THEN respond.