AS - yes - when I read the above, it is extremely creepy. Control and suspicion has always been his thing. I never minded much because I am pretty chilled out most of the time. Plus, I've never had anything to hide. Looking back at some of the things he said to me when he was in his rewriting phase, it is obvious he still doubted me "that guy from work phoned you that one time four years ago".
I finally set the app up on my phone today - he can see everyone that comes in and out of the house !!! It has been unplugged before (the cleaner) and he plugs it straight back in when he comes over. I will take your advice AS, and unplug it. He is away at the moment so for the next 4 days he won't be able to spy on me (assuming that he does). It will drive him nuts.
I was reading on another thread advice to an LBS to buy sexy underwear. Funnily enough, last weekend I was in town and walked past an underwear shop which happened to have a sale on. This particular shop is famous for ... ahem ... women's electrical gadgets. But they also do nice underwear, which is what I bought. I then walked to H's flat, which is where I had left the car (he was watching the kids for me whilst I ran some errands in town). When I got there he asked if I wanted a cup of tea. I said yes, put my shopping bags down by the door, and then sat on the sofa. None of this was intentional. The shop was on sale and I made an impulse purchase. I didn't even think it was weird until I got to his flat. I tried to hide the bag under another shopping bag, but the bag was very big and very pink, and very obviously from THAT shop. He didn't say anything, but am sure he definitely saw it. I wonder if it got his mind racing. Probably. I have a naturally athletic build but my GAL activity of choice (yoga and pilates) combined with the MLC diet, means I now look pretty [censored] awesome ... and he knows it.
