Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
[quote=Living]go out and get yourself some sexy new panties and start wearing them. I would love to see his face when he finds those in the laundry. Make him wonder what you are up to.
I love this!

Typically I assume there is an OW, but I don't think so in your case. Hopefully I am right. That is why I am recommending the following.

Make this fun. Enjoy this.

Men are simple creatures. We are very visual. I assume you know how to look smoking hot. Today is Friday. Be smoking hot tonight, new perfume if you have some, and then go out and do whatever. Have a bag with your workout clothes and go to the gym.

Be vague with your answer if he asks:

H:"W, where are you going?"
W:"Not sure yet."

or :
H:"When will you be home?"
W"I have not decided"

Hold eye contact with him. Smile. then go out. Enjoy what ever you are doing.

As a bonus, He will miss you. He will be thinking of you.





I don稚 believe there is another woman physically. Of course there is the lady he met in Hawaii. However, I don稚 think he his anyone here. He goes to work and he comes straight home. He FaceTimes me from work so I know he is there. He says he痴 not communicating with the lady he met in Hawaii. That could be a lie, who knows. However, I知 positive he痴 not having a physical affair with anyone right now. As I stated he goes to work and then he comes straight home everyday.

I love all the suggestions you made. I think I can definitely make it fun and enjoy it. I知 going to try everything you suggested.

Thanks you! Off to finish my shopping!


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together