As far as the sexy panties, that’s a good idea. I have the day off so I’m heading out to buy myself a few things (planned retail therapy.) I’ll make sure I pick up a few pairs of sexy undies.
Awesome!! When he asks you about them (and I guarantee he will) then just say you felt like doing something nice for yourself. He is STILL going to wonder though, LOL! "Why did she get those, who is she seeing, what does this mean."
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I also made my list this morning of things I’m going to do to GAL. My plan is to fill my calendar up with fun things I’ve been wanting to do. I’ve even planned some things for my S (who is 15) and me.
Perfect!
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I’ve also planned a few fun things for thanksgiving. All of my kids will be under one roof and I don’t want them worrying about what’s going on with the H and I. Things will be awkward enough. So I want to shower my kids with as much love as I can while they are all home. I think having fun activities planned will help with this.
That's fantastic too, great plan
EDIT- I agree with what R2C said. You go out looking hot and his mind is going to spin all over the place. It's human nature to want what we can't have, even if that's the spouse we've had forever. If a man rejects his spouse and then sees her being aloof towards him and going out looking like a million bucks, well suddenly he realizes the prize he's looking for was right under his nose all along. I'm not saying you can change his mind in a day or week or month but work on this and somewhere down the road he's going to start kicking himself.
