[quote=Living]go out and get yourself some sexy new panties and start wearing them. I would love to see his face when he finds those in the laundry. Make him wonder what you are up to.
I love this!
Typically I assume there is an OW, but I don't think so in your case. Hopefully I am right. That is why I am recommending the following.
Make this fun. Enjoy this.
Men are simple creatures. We are very visual. I assume you know how to look smoking hot. Today is Friday. Be smoking hot tonight, new perfume if you have some, and then go out and do whatever. Have a bag with your workout clothes and go to the gym.
Be vague with your answer if he asks:
H:"W, where are you going?" W:"Not sure yet."
or : H:"When will you be home?" W"I have not decided"
Hold eye contact with him. Smile. then go out. Enjoy what ever you are doing.
As a bonus, He will miss you. He will be thinking of you.
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