Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Originally Posted by Living

I do have a question for anyone that can help. Do I still do his laundry during this? We normally do each other’s laundry. Like if we are doing laundry, we have always just washed the other persons things as well. Do I cease doing that and only focus on my laundry. I’m not trying to be mean but I just want to know how I should handle that.


Does he still do it sometimes too? If so then keep doing what you've been doing like LH said. Also, go out and get yourself some sexy new panties and start wearing them. I would love to see his face when he finds those in the laundry. Make him wonder what you are up to.


Yes he still does it too. So I see no harm in doing it as well.

As far as the sexy panties, that’s a good idea. I have the day off so I’m heading out to buy myself a few things (planned retail therapy.) I’ll make sure I pick up a few pairs of sexy undies.

I also made my list this morning of things I’m going to do to GAL. My plan is to fill my calendar up with fun things I’ve been wanting to do. I’ve even planned some things for my S (who is 15) and me.

I’ve also planned a few fun things for thanksgiving. All of my kids will be under one roof and I don’t want them worrying about what’s going on with the H and I. Things will be awkward enough. So I want to shower my kids with as much love as I can while they are all home. I think having fun activities planned will help with this.


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together