Yes I did send it. (I might have made a mistake), however, I felt really good, because it lets her know that It is okay for her to do her thing, and I am doing mine (I am beginning to believe this myself) which is a big step.
Oh man. First of all, don't do big things like that without asking here first, we all would have told you to write it and then delete it, burn it or eat it. DON'T send stuff like that. She's not just a WAS, she's a WW. She's actively having an affair. Don't validate all the crap she's been spouting to justify her A.
Regarding selling the house, if you don't want to sell it then why are you doing all the work? If you do want to sell it then why do you care what her response is?
