H has it connected to his phone (as do I). I know he checks it because sometimes the cleaner unplugs it when she is doing the floors and he has spoken to me about asking her not to. He has even put a sticker on the plug saying 'DO NOT UNPLUG'. It is also linked to our temperature control app provided by our electricity provided. The bill is in his name, so I am not even sure if he can be removed from the app (the app is registered to the bill payer).
I could speak to him about unplugging it but I expect I will be called ridiculous, difficult and awkward a few times followed by him storming off and me feeling like a bag of [censored].
Thoughts - should I just unplug it? Should I live with it? Should i brave the conversation?
Ummmm, that is creepy AF. First, I highly doubt it's needed for insurance purposes. They give discounts for a "security system" but it would be highly unusual that they specify it must have cameras. You might call and check with them about that. Second, that is creepy AF. Third, even if it is required, who said HE needs access to it? Fourth, did I say that is creepy AF. Fifth (or maybe first), unplug it and if he gripes about it tell him to go pound sand. He chose to end the M, he doesn't get to spy on you like some creepy stalker.
