Finding the Balance and then Tipping the Scale

[Adam04]

To everyone posting , thank you for the support. Steve, I do understand what you're telling me. I too looked to see if there was information out there on it and didn't find any supporting information. I didn't challenge her on it. As you mentioned all this changes nothing on what I should be doing for myself. I need to catch up on reading on WW and the infidelity section of DR this weekend. I want to be on the right path to acceptance of the sitch and finding the best solution for short term and long term. Is there any more advice on my behavior I should be aware of from what I mentioned? I will be doing a lot of homework reading up on DR this weekend.