If your confident he's not in an active A you should continue to do his laundry. One way another it changes nothing.
Ok, thank you for the response. I swear I’m so thankful for this group. It really helps to have support from people who understand the journey I’m on.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together