You have done a great job and I totally get that you want her to contribute or maybe come out of the mess she created and be there in a better way for herself and your girls and maybe this is your last bit of connection to this part of your life that was so important for a long time-
I think it may take a lot of courage and inner work for a MLCer that has spiraled down so low-to find their way back
we continue to let go of the MLCer but I always hold on to the hope that one day they may step out of their crises and step up as a human for their well being as well as their children
It happens, I hear testimonies at church -- people find their way back-
we can energetically send them the best- maybe that can help them and help us let go
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