Originally Posted by neffer
Detach L, no expectations. Let him do the work he needs on himself. Just detach and GAL. I know it´s easy to say but, as you said, it´s life, YOUR life.

Stay strong Living, it´s a marathon, relax.


Thank you. This is the only thing I can do.

I do have a question for anyone that can help. Do I still do his laundry during this? We normally do each other’s laundry. Like if we are doing laundry, we have always just washed the other persons things as well. Do I cease doing that and only focus on my laundry. I’m not trying to be mean but I just want to know how I should handle that.


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together