The thing with the BC now is that months ago after getting on it for what I thought was just so we don't have an accidental pregnancy, she has a cyst the BC is suppose to help with. She's had a couple before where I think this happened as well, the BC helps decrease the size of the cyst. She had to get a couple removed. As for work, guys call late night sometimes from the terminal and I can hear them talking if something goes wrong with her line of work. it doesn't happen all the time and I'm not saying things can't happen. They definitely can. She could take off a whole day and do whatever she wants and I'll never know. I know she has acted strangely, secretive, and the whole nine.
I am no doctor, but from what I have read BC doesn't help with existing cysts. It only helps stop new ones from forming.
Look, one thing you need to have at the forefront of your mind is "believe NOTHING she says". Nothing. The capacity for the WW to lie is off the chart. That is what sandi was getting at with the "the only truth she has told you is she wants her independence".
Early on in my sitch I couldn't believe the changes in my WW. And her capacity for dishonesty was off the chart. Not sure about your religious beliefs, but we are extremely strong, conservative Christians. The woman wouldn't have told a white lie to save her life. Yet in the midst of her waywardness she was so dishonest it wasn't funny. I couldn't believe anything she said to me.
There was one Friday night early in January of this year where she went into the bathroom. She used to tease me about how long I take in the bathroom, and how she could do her business in just a few minutes. Well that night she went into the guest bathroom before we went to bed. It was about 1am. She was in there for almost an hour. I just knew she was in there taking pictures for her EA OM. Sure enough weeks later I found the evidence and the date and time on the pictures confirmed my suspicions. The point is that she was willing to be dishonest. "Are you okay? You were in the bathroom an awfully long time." "Yes, I've been having stomach problems."
WWs are like adult teenagers. They will say and do anything to do what they want to do and to get away with it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
