Hi neffer.

At this point in time, I want to let go, and focus on me, my shortcomings (things i want to improve about myself), and let her know, that whatever she chooses to do is on her, as I am focusing on me. I tried to validate some of the things, I had no answer to previously.

I would prefer to R at some point, but as of right now, that is not on the table - therefore I wrote to her, with a validation of some of the things she has previously told me. I also sent her text from Flysolo, regarding the house.

If D is the where this ends, then so be it, I will hopefully be a strong and independent father and person when that time comes, because my focus is me and my kids, and not her and her opinions and me thinking about them and why she does what she does. Hope it makes sense?

Last edited by Hurt213; 11/09/18 11:37 AM.

BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.