13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

These are statements she has made almost identical in the past, and then I found a validation thread when reading for a good advice, and I decided to validate her opinions in a written statement. I have not previously been able to answer her on them. She mentioned 3-4 of these statements yesterday evening, but I decided to go to bed, as I didn't know how to respond and found the conversation to take turn about us, and I was not ready for that.