I’m on my phone so I can’t really quote well.

I would say I overthought things plenty. Like you, I had many many threads that accumulated quickly. They’re gonna now but, I definitely went through plenty of cycles of trying to figure everything out. Ultimately, I had no choice but to accept that there are plenty of questions I won’t know the answer to. And that the answers just aren’t that important anymore. Basically, I just had to let it go that maybe I will get more information later and maybe not. What I DO know was that there is no point in spending hours of my precious energy on it.

As for your goals, they look like a good start. Try to figure out what is manageable for you. Add timelines. Add specific tasks you want to do and when you’ll do them. But I think you’re on the right track. Keep at it.