[Ready2Change]

I told him that he had unrealistic expectations for what he wants in a spouse and a marriage. I told him he wants a woman that looks good all the time and is ready to have sex on a whim. I guess she is not supposed to be a mother and have a life. She just needs to be ready to have sex with you when you like.

I then pointed out that it doesn't seem like he is willing or has what it takes to make a long-term relationship work. I told him he expects all his needs and wants to be met but isn't willing to do the work to satisfy his spouse's needs and wants. He is very one-sided.

I told him that he wants a woman that is fun and spontaneous, yet he is boring. He doesn't initiate date nights or anything.

I told him that he wants a woman that maintains her weight and appearance, yet he isn't maintaining his.

Nothing wrong with this. I believe these are true statements. The Truth will set you free.
If he listens or not is his issue.