Today was a tough day. I have spoken to our mutual friend, and told her that I no longer want / need information about WW, as it is actually not a help but it keeps me caught instead of being able to detach and find my self again.
Great! Now be prepared to have to remind her a few times, because people like her thrive on gossip and it'll be eating her up not to be the center of attention.
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that WW and OM are meeting today in a forest to talk about their relationship, and that OM wants a third chance.
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today was going to be a long day at work, but her and her female colleagues would stay at school all day and have a great and fun day
Man this really irks me. I just hate hearing stuff like this, because it is SO INCREDIBLY DISRESPECTFUL to you! It would be better if she just said to your face that she's going to meet OM. All this sneaking around and lying is just absolutely disgusting. I hope you see that and agree with it, because that leads into this:
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I am having a really hard time figuring out how to be around her, and maybe I am being a fool, maybe I am not understanding things right, but do I ignore her, when she asks me about things such as smalltalk and my job and whatnot? The last evenings I have been coming home from the gym and just headed straight to bed instead of staying in the living room with her - Is this what I should do ? I am still a bit confused. She is acting like she is just going to work, coming back home and being a family (cake-eating I know)... Or do I just answer short but in a happy mood?
Because if you are DISGUSTED with her as you should be, then that should drive how you treat her. She doesn't deserve to be treated like your W, or even like a decent person. Maybe she was decent and will be again, but right now?
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I dont trust her one bit at this stage
Good, you definitely should not.
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Today I am going to have fun with the kids, go to the park and feed the ducks, then dinner and when WW gets home I will be going to the gym. After gym I will be going straight to bed, I don't want to hear about her day (is this right?)
Again, get disgusted with her! There is nothing wrong with that! Be completely turned off by her actions and disrespect towards you. Behave accordingly. Above all, respect yourself. Does someone who respects themselves allow themselves to be treated like this?
EDIT- just noticed Steve hit on the same point but in much shorter fashion, sometimes I get wordy
