Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Wanted1
At that point, all hope is probably lost anyway, so maybe me venting all of my frustrations on her won't matter and I should just do it.


And your back to trying to use logic and reason.


I know that. It's just going to be hard not to give her a hard dose of reality, logic and reason when she's on the way out the door and trying to make it sound like "she tried."

No, W didn't try. W never even had a thought about trying. -- I'd like to say that along with a lot of other things when I know for sure D is taking place and there is no turning back. Will it change the way she thinks? Of course not. But it will give me some closure in telling her what really took place and that her fairy tale of thinking she tried is just that, a fairy tale, to make herself feel better about her monumental decision to tear apart our family.

You are either with us (family) or against us. And when the time comes that she drops the real bomb, she will be against us.

Last edited by Wanted1; 11/08/18 09:19 PM.

M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19