You get a pass for saying all those things that are true BTW.
The best thing to do right now is have the attitude of "good luck finding happiness" and GAL like a mad woman.
As for the sex, a man will try to have sex if he can when the house is on fire. Do not put any stock in him trying to have sex with you. He is trying to manipulate you.
There is a very good chance he comes to his senses if you completely let him go.
LH19, you are absolutely right. A man will try to have sex with you no matter what. However, I am holding firm, he won't be getting any sex from me. I have and will continue to reject his sexual advances.
As for the GAL like a mad woman, I am already on top of it. I am going tomorrow to the gym close to our house and signing up for a membership. I have also made a list of things that I have been wanting to do but have put off because of him. I am calling my list my end of 2018 bucket list. I'll continue with new things next year, I just really wanted to fill my calendar up for the remainder of the year. I am actually proud of the progress that I am making.
I can tell the detachment and me GAL is working because he is watching me like a hawk.
I am not sure if he will come to his senses or not. One can never know. He did go to his first therapy appointment today. So that's good for him.
My goal is to of course GAL and be a mystery. However, I also want to make sure that if we do end up in D court, that I put in the work and did all I could. That lets me walk away with peace of mind rather than regrets.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
