[SteveLW]

So how is it possible that you want to have sex with the woman you're ready to leave, are no longer attracted too, isn't doing it for you anymore, and who you are no longer in love with.

It is called control. I am not sure he believes the garbage he spewed at you. My guess is that when he said thing like that to you in the past, you bent over backwards to make him happy. You cooked his favorite foods. Bought him gifts. Gave him sex.

So now when he wants something he tells you things like that to scare you into submission.

Also, I see nothing wrong with much of what you said. Though I would like to know what you said to him at 2:30am. Preferably something like: "You just told me you were firing me as your W, and now you are in here expecting sex like a H would?!? Get the heck out of here right now."

Men can have sex with a hole in the wall. (Quoting Dr. Laura here.) We are interesting creatures. Our sexual discrimination is very low, but we think that if a woman lets us have sex with her then she must love us.So can a man have sex with someone he doesn't love? Absolutely. Does he believe a woman can? Absolutely not.