An old mindset for Burned. This is thread 8.

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burned,

I feel like we are both in the exact same situation, more or less. Aside from my W not yet coming out and telling me she wants a D, all signs sure point to her wanting it, she just doesn't have the guts to tell me I think.

I envy you because there aren't kids involved......they make this so much tougher to swallow and essentially detach.

Maybe I'm wrong saying it the way I did. I totally get where you are coming from and I'm not trying to say you should be less devastated about your sitch because you don't have kids. I'm sorry if it came off that way. I just feel like if my kids weren't involved, I might be able to detach a little easier. At least I like to think I would, but maybe being the beta I am it wouldn't really matter if that were the case.